Daniel and Friends Fund

Daniel and Friends Fund
The Daniel and Friends Fund...creating the platform for a stronger, more intimate special needs community

What is the Daniel and Friends Fund?

On the 23rd August 2013 little Daniel le Roux lost his lengthy and courageous battle with Leigh Syndrome, exactly one week after another little warrior, Mariele Laurie, succumbed to complications of the syndrome she suffered from, Aicardi-Goutieres Syndrome. Professor Pieter Fourie, whose care of and love for Daniel and Mariele had gone over and beyond anything which might be considered fair professional expectation, was determined not to allow the heartache and devastation caused by such tragedy to go without lending itself to a higher purpose...and so shortly after Mariele and Daniel had earned their angel wings, Professor Fourie shared with Kate and Lianie, their mothers, his vision for an organisation which would provide much-needed support for other parents who might be on a similar journey. Just a few short months later, the Daniel and Friends Fund was born guided by, by this time, three special needs mothers, each symbolic of the three friends who had helped Daniel in the Biblical passage from which Professor Fourie had drawn his inspiration.

Since their launch in February 2014, the Daniel and Friends Fund (a registered non-profit organisation) and the dedicated and driven people behind it, have provided not only the emotional and psychological support often sought by parents of children with special needs, but have also committed to ensuring that these parents have had access to the necessary knowledge and training in order to equip them to care for their children in the best possible way that they can. While largely focusing on top priority issues like providing extremely affordable CPR courses, free therapy sessions, psychology-based programs for the parents, occasional donations of items/equipment necessary for caring for a child with special needs...the importance of also creating a fundamental base from which friendships and 'normalcy' can stem has not gone overlooked. To this end, the Daniel and Friends Fund mommies are often treated on special days like Mother's Day and Women's Day and, where possible, these invitations are extended to the entire family for celebrations such as Mandela Day, Christmas Day, etc.

The purpose of our blog is not only to provide the opportunity for sponsors, supporters and followers to stay in touch with the various projects and events we're busy with but also, and just as importantly, to provide an insight for others into what life entails for families on a special needs journey, as well as enlightening fellow parents to the fact that this journey need not be travelled alone...

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

20 October is Down Syndrome Awareness Day (SA)

Down syndrome (DS or DNS) or Down's syndrome, also known as trisomy 21, is a genetic disorder caused by the presence of all or part of a third copy of chromosome 21.[1] It is typically associated with physical growth delays, characteristic facial features, and mild to moderate intellectual disability.[2] Down syndrome can be identified during pregnancy by prenatal screening followed by diagnostic testing, or after birth by direct observation and genetic testing. Regular screening for health problems common in Down syndrome is recommended throughout the person's life. Down syndrome is one of the most common chromosome abnormalities in humans,[3] occurring in about one per 1000 babies born each year.[2] In 2013 it resulted in 36,000 deaths down from 43,000 deaths in 1990.[11] It is named after John Langdon Down, the British doctor who fully described the syndrome in 1866.[12] Some aspects of the condition were described earlier by Jean-Étienne Dominique Esquirol in 1838 and Édouard Séguin in 1844.[13] The genetic cause of Down syndrome—an extra copy of chromosome 21—was identified by French researchers in 1959.

Those with Down Syndrome nearly always have physical and intellectual disabilities. They also typically  have poor immune function and generally reach developmental milestones at a later stage. An increased risk of a number of other health problems is usually also present, including congenital heart disease, epilepsy, leukemia, thyroid diseases and mental disorders, among others.


Roshan was born on the 26th of May at gestational age of 37.5 weeks, weighing only 2.720kg.
After Roshan was born, he was assessed by a paediatrician and diagnosed with Down Syndrome, confirmed with genetic testing within the following week. At Roshan’s follow up consultation, a heart murmur was detected and we were referred to a Paediatric Cardiologist, who added an additional diagnosis of VSD (a hole in the lower chamber of the heart). To date, no medical intervention has been necessary to treat the VSD and we pray it will remain so.  

As Hypertonia (low muscle tone) is associated with Down Syndrome, Roshan required Physiotherapy and still attends Speech and Occupational therapy at present. He is non-verbal and we are in the process of having him assessed for Speech Apraxia to ascertain whether this might be contributing to Roshan’s not yet communicating verbally, despite his age. Roshan also has sensory issues and doesn’t always adjust to unfamiliar surroundings and people. He also suffers from GDD (Global Developmental Delay).

At seven months old, Roshan became very ill and was rushed to hospital.  After a series of tests and a biopsy it was discovered that he has Hirschsprungs disease, which required a colostomy until the infection subsided in his colon. At 10 months old Roshan had a pull through (follow up) surgery as well as an Orchidopexy.  In most cases, life resumes as normal after these surgeries, but because of Roshan having Down Syndrome as well, this is not the case – Roshan is dependent on the chronic use of laxatives and will be in nappies for many years to come. Because of Roshan’s heart condition, the use of anaesthetic makes every surgery risky.

From the moment I held my precious little boy in my arms I knew he was very special, even before any diagnoses were made. Roshan has brought a new meaning to parenting for me. He is teaching me and all those around him that children with special needs just need to be embraced lovingly by society.

Today Roshan is 3 years old and keeps us busy and on our toes. He loves water, dancing and playing with blocks and balls.  As yet, Roshan does not attend a nursery school as we have not been able to find one which meets both Roshan's personal needs, as well as our financial restraints. We would do anything to keep him happy and healthy, and look forward to being able to sign Roshan up for swimming lessons and equestrian therapy (horseriding therapy) one day in the future." Samantha, Roshan's mommy


"Our journey with Down Syndrome began when Anja was already seven weeks old. As neither scans nor blood tests during my pregnancy indicated any reason to suspect Down Syndrome, the diagnosis was a huge shock! We met with a cardiologist the very next day...I never knew I had so many tears. And they kept coming! Most babies with Down Syndrome are born with heart defects (in addition to a variety of other possible medical issues). Anja had a hole of about 5mm between the arteries which did not require surgery. What relief that news brought, as well as the blessing that she did not suffer from any other serious medical issues.
Anja's daddy, Jacques, made peace with the diagnosis from the beginning, saying "Anja is my little girl!" I, however, had to come to terms with it. Anja was being re-born in my eyes, I had to dream new dreams for her...accept the fact that she was even more special and would need me/us much longer than a typical little girl would. Developmental challenges...intellectual challenges...a lot of new "things"...a brand new girl we didn't know yet. We decided to take one step at a time and contacted the Down Syndrome Association of the Western Cape to set up a meeting. Later on we typed up an email to all our family and friends telling them about Anja, that she is our little girl and will be raised in the same way as her brother and that we remain the same people. We also stated that any questions were welcome. We realised immediately that acceptance was going to be the biggest challenge. 
Now, more than a year later, we have discovered that we are so lucky to have Anja in our lives. With her ever-present smile, we've learnt about unconditional love and the need to slow down as everything takes longer to master. Sometimes it is hard to see that your little girl is "behind" her friends, sometimes a tear finds its way down my cheek but I wouldn't want it any other way.
The hole in Anja's heart shrunk to approximately 1mm and she started crawling at 16.5 months. We've made many new friends along the way too, learnt about early intervention, physiotherapy, occupational therapy, disabilities, inclusion, genetics and much much more. Some days have been really hard but in so many ways Anja is the best thing that could have come our way - she and her brother fill our hearts and lives!
In November 2014 I began my "21 Cookies of Hope" project in support of Anja and our hopes for her and to raise awareness."    Mariaan, Anja's mommy
Little Sienna showing support for her DFF Family xxx

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